It's the Random Weekend: Bakit nga ba hindi ka crush ng crush mo? (based on true story.. charot!)

Babala: ang mga tao at pangyayari dito ay pawang likha lamang ng aking isipan... hihi

Nagsulat ako tungkol sa libro/pelikula na "Bakit Hindi Ka Crush Ng Crush Mo" noong Huwebes. Pero ang entry na ito ay hindi tungkol doon. Sabihin na nating lahat tayo ay naka-experience na ng ganito: yung hindi ka crush o gusto o even kilala ng crush mo. Alam natin yung feeling na kikiligin ka kapag daraan si crush sa harap mo, tapos kahit isang aksidenteng sulyap lang sa'yo e feeling mo na may gusto na siya/interesado na siya sa'yo. 

Bata pa lang tayo, ang tanong na sa atin ng mga nanay o ate o kuya natin e "Sino crush mo?" Aminin mo man o hindi, mayroon man talaga o wala, aasarin ka ng mga kaibigan at pamilya mo na nagkakacrush ka na. Tama ba? Huwag mong sabihing hindi nangyari sa'yo yan. Ngayon, ilang taon ka na ba? Fourteen? Eighteen? Twenty-one? Kahit anong edad mo pa, kung isa kang normal na tao, ay paniguradong may crush ka.

Sabi nga nila, ang exciting naman talaga sa pagkakaroon ng crush ay yung pagaaksayahan mo siya ng panahon mo, tapos kapag kaunting sabi lang niya ng pangalan mo ay kikiligin ka na. Exciting di ba? Hindi mo alam kung interesado siya o hindi, pero go ka pa rin!

Una sa lahat, paano mo ba malalaman kung interesado siya sa'yo? (O hindi)

1. Kahit anong effort sa pakikipag-flirt sa kanya ay successful.

Alam mo na, ang usual na pagiging touchy at being all eyes and ears kay crush ay effective talaga. Kung hindi siya lumayo, o mukhang na-weirduhan sa'yo, success! Alam mo na, may pag-asa ka. Pero huwag masyadong umasa, malay mo, friendly lang pala talaga siya. Hahaha!

Kapag patuloy ka naman na nakikipag-usap sa kanya while getting all touchy and interested at ang sagot lang niya ay "Oo nga," "Pwede rin," "Hindi naman," not so good ang impression mo. Pwede mo pang ituloy, kung sapat na sa'yo ang na mas marami pang kayang sabihin si Siri kasya sa crush mong walang kwenta. Haha!

2. Siya na ang unang lalapit sa'yo.

Sabihin na nating nasa gathering kayo ng mga friends of friends niyo, at alam mo na dadating siya kasi ini-stalk mo na ang Facebook o Twitter niya o di kaya naman pina-text mo na siya sa kaibigan mong may number niya kung pupunta ba sya. Pagkakita niya sa'yo e magha-hi na agad sa'yo at kakamustahin ka. Ayan tayo e, swerte mo na yan. Kuhanin mo na kasi ang number, gamiting dahilan ang similar interest niyo tulad ng table tennis o di kaya naman ay beerpong. Haha!

Pero kung pagkadating mo sa gathering niyo e nakita mo siya, nilapitan mo kaagad, at nag-hi ka, tapos biglang after ilang minutes ay nagpaalam na siya sa friends of friends niyo na uuwi na siya, nako. Dalawa lang yan. Either may gagawin pa siya (not likely) o iniiwasan ka na niya. (awtsu!)

3. Tuloy-tuloy ang conversations niyo hanggang sa maging close na kayo.

Oops, grabe na 'to ha. Talagang interesado na niyan si crush kapag kahit sa Facebook o text pa yan e magkausap kayo at biglang magseset pa siya ng lakad niyo na kayo lang dalawa. Nakaalis ka na sa pa-crush crush lang. Pwede ka na ngayong magpatweetums, o kaya naman magpa-miss. Hindi na yan sakop ng post na 'to kaya gorabells ka na!

Ngunit kung ikaw naman ay in-add mo na siya sa Facebook, finollow sa Twitter, hinanap ang Youtube channel, Ask.fm, at kung ano ano pang social networking sites na member siya, plus kinuha mo pa ang number niya sa kaibigan pero hindi mo naman mai-text, at minessage mo na sa FB pero na-'seen-zone' ka lang, itigil mo na yan. Ilang linggo mo na ba yan crush ha, two weeks? six months? Habang maaga pa, move on to the next crush nalang na pagaaksayahan ng energy sa panlalandi o pangii-stalk. Sayang lang ang oras mo sa douchebag o bi-atch na yan. Gora na at hanapin ang mas compatible na crush para sa'yo. Anong malay mo, kapag naka-move on ka na saka siya magiging interesado sa'yo at gawin mo ang lahat ng ginawa niya sayo! (wishful thinking lang haha)

Matapos ang lahat ng yan, kung naging successful ang pagkakaroon mo ng crush kay crush, e tuloy mo lang yan. At kung hindi naman, gaya ng sabi ko kanina ay move on na agad sa next crush bago pa maging bitterness ang nararamdaman mo. Kaya naman tayo nagkaka-crush para mas exciting ang lovelife, yung tipong hahanap ka nalang ng crush kaysa naman sitting pretty ka lang waiting for your knight in shining armor. Kaya kung maging bitterness yan, aba, mali na ang pinasok mo. I-brain wash ang sarili ng three to four times na hindi nangyari yun at hanap na ng bagong crush! Magmadali!

Ngayon, pano nga ba malalaman kung bakit hindi ka crush ng crush mo? 

I. Ayaw niya sa'yo.

Gaya ng unang chapter sa libro ni Ramon Bautista, isa sa mga pinaka-obvious na dahilan kung bakit hindi ka talaga crush ng crush mo e dahil ayaw niya sa'yo. Huwag mo nang ipilit, baka bigwasan ka na niyan. He's/she's not worth it.

II. You're out of his/her league.

Andami pang nalalaman na na ganyan, e para lang naman sa nagmamaganda/nagfeefeeling pogi yan. Kung feeling ng crush mo ay masyado siyang maganda/gwapo/sexy/ma-appeal para sa beauty mo, e, douchebag siya! Huwag mo nang ipagpilitan ang sarili mo sa mga taong ganyan ang pananaw. Malay mo, feeling din ng crush niya e he's/she's out of his/her league. Quits lang!

III. May gusto siyang iba.

Simple lang naman yan e. Gaya ng unang dahilan, ayaw niya sa'yo, posible dahil baka may gusto siyang iba. Minsan naman, hindi porke't may gusto siyang iba e ayaw niya na sayo. O kaya naman hindi porke't ayaw niya sa'yo e may gusto siyang iba. Malas mo lang kung ang sitwasyon mo e yung huli kong sinabi. Ang point ko rito ay hindi ka talaga mabibigyang pansin kapag iba ang laman ng isip at puso niya. Hintayin mo na lang na maggive-up siya sa crush niya, saka ka pumasok sa buhay niya. Anong malay mo, baka ikaw pa ang maghilom ng sugatan niyang puso? Haha!

Minsan, kung mamalasin ka talaga, lahat ng dahilan na sinabi ko e applicable sa'yo. Huwag ka nang magpakabitter, ginusto mo 'yan e. Mapapayo ko lang sa'yo ay move on, marami pa diyan ang mas worth ng stalking at flirting skills mo, kaysa sa crush mo na masyadong mataas ang standards na kahit siya, hindi pasok sa sariling standards niya. Hahaha!

P.S.

Marahil base ito sa mga karanasan ko, ng mga kaibigan ko o ng iba pang mga tao sa paligid ko. Puwede rin naman itong inspired by real events. Pero hindi ko naman masasabi na ang mga ito ay applicable sa lahat satin. May iba sigurong nakakarelate, pero may iba rin namang natatawa nalang sa mga nakasulat dito, kasi medyo parang bitter ang pagkasulat. Haha!

Top 10 Korean Romance Comedy Movies

I've always loved watching Romantic Comedies. There really is such a unique feeling when watching Romance movies with a hint of light-heartedness. I found this genre especially appealing when I started watching Korean Romance Comedies when I was younger. In my circle of (mostly girl) friends, I have found no one who disliked these kinds of movies even though they're sometimes "cliché." It just makes hopeless romantics like me feel all giddy inside. As I have watched quite a number of these movies, I could recommend some of my all time favorites. Most of these favorites are old ones or those "starting points" of those K-movie fanatics. I also chose these movies because they are those which have the elements of a Romantic Comedy. I will also recommend some of the good romance movies which are not much of a rom-com.

1. My Sassy Girl (2001)

Based on an internet novel, this movie is popular not only amongst K-movie fanatics, but also those who enjoy watching Romance Comedies of any origin. This movie was re-made into a Hollywood movie of the same title, so some are probably familiar of it. For those who are not familiar, this movie is about a strong, bold woman who becomes the girlfriend of a timid guy. It is indeed touching, romantic, and at the same time hilarious as hell. This movie, being number one in my list, will not disappoint rom-com lovers.

2. Windstruck (2004)

Windstruck is said to be the prequel of My Sassy Girl because of elements which connects it to the other movie. However, it's not completely its prequel and it stands on its own. It has its own charm as a movie. This is much more romantic than funny and what I love about this is how it touches your heart after watching. The movie's about destiny and how these two different people (a female cop and a male teacher) fell for each other.

3. Speedy Scandal (2008)

One of my favorite movies of all time. It is placed third, however, because it's not much romance between a woman and a man as it is much more about family. What I love about this movie is its unique take on family relationships: a really young single dad who already has a grandson. Guaranteed to make you feel crying and laughing all throughout the movie.

4. Love, So Divine (2004)

I watched this movie way back in high school and I still can't forget the feeling when I watched it. My heart felt like it was overwhelmed with emotions that I really can't forget it until today. This movie is about a seminarian who, with a course of events, falls in love with a girl just before he becomes a priest.

5. My Little Bride (2004)

I'm not much a fan of boy meets girl love story compared to known-each-other-for-a-long-time love story, that's why I love this. Tackles the topic of arranged marriage in modern society, early marriage, and huge age gap in love. This movie is cute and light.

6. 200 Pounds of Beauty (2006)

A movie that questions the standards of beauty. Quite touching and sure to provide a lesson to the viewers.

7. He was Cool (2004)

First movie that I watched based on an internet novel by Guiyeoni. Most suckers for bad boys would love this movie I suppose. Innocent girl meets bad boy from other school.

8. 100 Days with Mr. Arrogant (2004)

This movie is also based from a popular internet novel and of course, is popular among those who love "bad boy" type of guys. High school girl becomes errand girl for a mean college guy.

9. Baby and Me (2008)

Who would be able to resist this adorable baby and handsome man? This movie full of cute and cuddly scenes is about a high school guy taking care of an abandoned baby which is said to be his own child.

10. Do re mi fa so la ti do (2008)

Also from an internet novel by Guiyeoni, this movie is about a charming, yet quite arrogant guy who falls in love with a strong-willed girl. Quite serious for a high school movie yet touching.

Other Romance K-movies I recommend:

Jenny, Juno (2005)

The Classic (2003)

Hello School Girl (2008)

Recent Ones:

My Black Mini Dress / Little Black Dress (2011)

An Introduction to Architecture / Architecture 101 (2012)

Feel free to add to the list! 

(photos taken from Google Images)

Best Chick Flicks.

I've been looking up more chick flicks to watch since yesterday because I just had the urge to see some heartwarming films to get into the mood. Now, I'm not much of a know-it-all in the chick flick film genre but when I looked up lists of must watch, I didn't have much to discover because I've already watched most of them. So, with my not-so-expert knowledge of these films I shall make a list of my Top 15 Best Chick Flicks of All Time. This list will include those which I would watch over and over again and those which made me hungover. I will also go with intuition; first movies which comes to my mind will be considered as my favorites. Also, this list includes what I've watched ever since I loved chick flicks, up until now. Placing is decided by its impact.

15. 17 Again

Reasons why we love chick flicks? Cute actors. Zac Efron + Matthew Perry? Whew. Grown up man going back to high school with all the new trends.. See what happens. 4 out of 5 stars!

14. The Switch

"Friend is the father of your baby? Whoa, I want to watch this." Was my reaction to this new concept injected in chick flick. It was definitely worth it and I love the kid! 4 out of 5 stars.

13. You Again

Humor. I honestly couldn't remember any good points of this movie except for fun filled fights and hilarious granny wars (Betty White FTW!). Anyways, 3 out of 5 stars!

12. A Walk to Remember

"In places no one would find.." Soundtrack is amazing. Who hasn't watched this yet? Well, prepare tissues. Probably the most lovable tearjerker ever. 5 out of 5 stars for making me cry.

11. Bridesmaids

My first impression on this was "Too boring to go on." Well, first impression would take me nowhere. I gathered the energy to continue and it was awesome! Definitely women empowering and hilarious in a different kind of way. Just don't take it too seriously and it will be fun! 4 out of 5 stars!

10. Easy A

Emma Stone is just lovely in this film. Teen film in a modern setting where bitches aren't who they were supposed to be like before and tackles all sorts of unique teenage issues. A definite A! 5 out of 5.

9. The Devil Wears Prada

Fashion and passion. Love the overall concept of the film. Must watch for fashion lovers! 5 out of 5 stars.

8. Ruby Sparks

As you can notice, I enjoy watching chick flicks with a different twists to them. The idea of making someone out of imagination into reality is definitely intriguing, thus the interest to watch. It came out pretty well and that's why I recommend! 4 out of 5 stars.

7. Nick and Norah's Infinite Playlist

Another teen film with a great sense. Maybe music lovers would be much more attached. Set in one night, filled with crazy events. 5 out of 5 stars!

6. Pitch Perfect

"You guys are gonna get pitch-slapped so hard, your man boobs are gonna concave." FAT AMY is the best! I'm not much of a fan of musical films but this one pitch-slapped me real hard. It's Aca-awesome! 5 out of 5!

5. Juno

Best teenage pregnancy film ever. Well, who makes teenage pregnancy films this witty and fun? Gotta love Juno. Not outrageously funny though. Just plain witty and tackles the subject somewhat lightly. 5 out of 5.

4. The Proposal

Ryan Reynolds? Uhm, Ahuh! One of those hilarious yet romantic (sort-of) film. Of course, Betty White does it again! 5 out of 5.

3. She's the Man

Funniest thing about this film is: Amanda Bynes becoming a guy. She's a cute guy for Pete's sake. Cannot say much but let me tell ya: I've watched this countless of times. Feel-good film and freaking hilarious bromance! Exceeds 5 out of 5.

2. Just Go With It

Rom-com veterans together in a film? Total awesomeness. Like She's the Man, I don't know how much I've repeated watching this. Love the chemistry and the humor. Exceeds 5 out of 5.

1. Mean Girls

First chick flick that I've loved. I cannot stress how much I memorize the lines in this movie. Still the best chick flick for me! Exceeds 5 out of 5.

Runner-Ups:

Angus, Thongs, and Perfect Snogging
Jawbreaker
Aquamarine

Korean Dramas 2012

This post has been thought about just a few minutes ago as I had the urge to update this blog. I am doing an everyday challenge on my other, less serious blog on Tumblr and I suddenly felt like updating this more "serious" blog. As I am a K-drama junkie, I shall write about those that I finished, those that I had left behind in 2012, and those that I'm planning to continue on watching. First would be the K-dramas that I've finished watching.

(not in a particular order)

Reply 1997 (9 out of 10)

This drama is probably among the best that I've watched in my lifetime. I wouldn't compare it to the likes of Full House or Goong but I might say that it is one of those that I would watch over and over. Its concept of reunion and involvement of the past and future of a fan girl are the characteristics that made me drawn to this drama. I also love the accent used by the actors in the drama as it emphasizes that the characters have strong personalities.

The Thousandth Man (7 out of 10)

It is short compared to other dramas but it's just the right amount of episodes for the story because it would get dragged on if it had a full 16 episode format. I like how the characters are bright despite the sad and seemingly depressing story-line because of the association of themes such as death. That's basically what I've liked about this drama. I watched this as I was familiar with the Gumiho legend because of My Girlfriend is a Gumiho (also a K-drama) and because Lee Chun hee is the male lead. Although some scenes were (for a lack of good terms) "pushing it," the ending satisfied the whole story so I was happy yet sad about that.

The Moon Embracing the Sun (9 out of 10)

Now, this is real talk. If you want a full on drama with a great plot, I suggest you watch this. I see nothing wrong about this drama as it has qualities of your average yet amazing TV dramas. At first, I didn't want to watch this because I really am not fond of heavy dramas with a 'traditional' theme (Joseon era). I find those kinds of dramas too slow-paced and I get bored easily. But this one made me watch every episode that comes next because I couldn't stop wondering what would happen next. One of my strongly recommended dramas for 2012.

Big (5 out of 10)

I didn't like the ending and I doubt anyone liked it. This is one of those dramas which starts off good (real good that is) that you want to watch it until the end but the end disappoints you. I wrote a post about its ending here in this blog and I explained a few things regarding the ending from what I understand and from what I want to believe. I might have criticized this a lot because I expected great things from the Hong sisters (writers of this drama; good ones). I've watched every drama that they had written (except Hong Gil Dong) and this is the worst. I get it that they're experimenting on writing with different themes but I didn't like how they portrayed this. I do not recommend if you make endings a huge deal (like me).

Love Rain (8 out of 10)

I also wrote about the first few episodes of this drama in this blog. I definitely like the concept and had a depressing time watching it. It has a sad theme but I tell you this is full on romance. It left me all fluffy and warm inside yet tears flow on the outside. A bit draggy I suppose and took me courage to finish it. The soundtrack was great.

Dream High 2 (8 out of 10)

Sequel to Dream High 1 but only one cast member (who is also the producer) remained: JYP. It is not better than Dream High 1 plot wise but comedy wise, I liked this better because the first one was much more serious. This is more light-hearted yet it made me cry (I suppose because I can relate). Dream High 1 has a point higher than this one but I still recommend it.

Wild Romance (9 out of 10)

As this drama was aired in KBS at the same time-slot as The Moon Embracing the Sun in MBC, it got low ratings in Korea. But because I didn't like watching traditional themed dramas then, I watched this first and liked it a lot. If you ask for comedy, this is so funny. And if you ask for butterflies in your stomach, I got that too, from watching this. This drama might be underrated, but its plot is as serious as it gets yet retains its rom-com quality.

The Innocent Man (8 out of 10)

Confession: I watched this because of Song Joong ki. Well, who didn't watch it for him? Haha. Although I also watched it for Lee Kwang Soo as I adore him in Running Man. I also am not fond of melodramas and I didn't really want to watch this at first. Like The Moon Embracing the Sun, this is like your average revenge and dark themed dramas out there yet it makes one continue watching it because it is damn interesting. Comic relief is also provided by Lee Kwang Soo.

Rooftop Prince (9 out of 10)

I hate it when I get irritated by a mere character in a story. I still haven't the guts to continue this as I'm afraid I might have a rage because of one character. However, the characters are lovely and hilarious as hell because they time travelled to the future. (Is what I said before I finished it) Now that I'm done with it, I can say that it's quite appealing to me because of the characters (excluding the antagonist that is) and the main plot. As I'm a sucker for time travel love stories, I definitely fell in love with this drama.

Second part contains those that I haven't finished watching yet. I will still rate them according to what I've finished watching. Ending is not obviously considered in the rating.

The King 2 Hearts (8 out of 10)

I watched this while I was still struggling with college life thus haven't had the time to actually finish it back then. I stopped watching this because I was too sad/angry/frustrated at the sudden turn of events. What's interesting about this drama is that it involves North Korea and not only that, the female lead is a North Korean while the male lead is a South Korean prince. I believe I was almost halfway done but I didn't get to finish it. I still plan on watching though when I get a copy.

Queen In-Hyun's Man (6 out of 10)

Time travel? I love those stuff. And a romantic comedy is it? I'm on! Also, I'm still halfway through, I find the concept amazing and the chemistry of the main leads is so romantic. I'm putting it aside for now because some other recent dramas caught my attention.

Cheongdamdong Alice (6 out of 10)

I don't like main characters who are always bullied but I know that this would get better so I'm giving it a chance. I don't like the crazy guy though. Fashion is involved and is a plus. I also heard something (an event which I'm in favor of) about the story that made me decide to continue watching it.

A Gentleman's Dignity (7 out of 10)

I just started watching this and so far, I don't have the reason to stop it. Gorgeous men in their forties - what a fresh idea. And I mean it. 

Third and last part: 5 % to no chance of picking it up again. Will rate based on very few episodes that I've watched.

I Love Lee Tae Ri (6 out of 10)

Has potential and plot seems interesting although I don't think I'd waste time finding decent copies.

The Marriage Plot (5 out of 10)

Concept seems interesting but common. Characters didn't have an impact on me on the first episode so..

To the Beautiful You (6 out of 10)

Hana Kimi Korea! What I've been waiting for since Hana Kimi Japan. SM entertainment picking it up didn't satisfy me at all. Could've gotten more potential in the hands of other producers in my opinion. Also, I already know the story and seems like there's nothing more to it so I stopped.

Operation Proposal (5 out of 10)

Another Korean version of a favorite Japanese drama of mine, Proposal Daisakusen. I loved the original series yet I didn't seem to be that interested in this Korean version after watching the first episode.

Recently Watched Korean Movies. (Romantic Comedy)

I've recently watched many movies in just a month (January 2013) and many of these are from Korea. I've been watching Korean movies since I was in high school, all thanks to the internet. When school was on break, I've always watched Korean dramas and movies sometimes by myself or with a friend. What we do is we chat on Yahoo! Messenger then while watching the movie. We would know each other's reaction even though we are on each others' home. Funny huh? Well now, we still do it. In fact, most of the movies that I would be blabbering about are movies that we've watched together. I'll start with Romantic Comedy.

First is the movie Love On-air. I've always adored Korean rom-com movies because it's just different from Hollywood/Filipino films. I say that because Korean movies seems to offer different twists to romantic comedy. Now back to Love On-air. Another title for this movie is "Wonderful Radio." I had an interest to watch this movie a long time ago (when it was released) because of Lee Min Jung. However, when I discovered that Lee Kwang Soo is on this film and Kim Jong Kook and Kang Gary would cameo, I immediately downloaded it and watched. I resolved to provide a film review through pros and cons.

Pros: This movie can provide people with so much emotions. I cried hard, laughed hard, and got irritated (because of the characters). Simple storyline yet had the perfect way to tell the story.

Cons: I have to say this but as I've watched many romantic comedy films, I felt that this was just like any other. As I said earlier, the plot was simple and didn't have much excitement. Personally, I didn't like the romance side because I think that the story can stand even if the romance side was taken out. What the male lead did was not limited to love imo, his greatest contribution was not particularly romantic for me.

Recommend or not?

I do not recommend this for people who watches films often (like people who loves to critic) but if you just want a feel good film and if you like Lee Kwang Soo, go watch this.

Next is "Spellbound" or "Chilling Romance." This film is a mixed genre; a horror romantic comedy. Reason I watched? Just plain bored and looking for something different. Well, it's a mix of two genres that I like the most so why not? I watched it and I have definitely mixed reviews about this. The story depicted a woman who has an ability to see ghosts and got involved with a man who does magic for a living.

Pros: The idea of a horror romantic comedy was tackled in the film and that's one of its pros because I liked that it was an essential part of the plot. The actors portrayed their characters well. Not only did I love the plot, but also the characters. The male and female lead characters were powerful and so as the supporting ones.

Cons: Admittedly, I hated the horror parts of the film. But as I've said earlier, it was a core part of the plot and it cannot be taken away. I just hate cheap horror tricks (because I get scared alright!). Well you know what I mean about those tricks like the sounds and stuff. It comes between scenes and it shifts faster than one would expect. Nonetheless, I still like this movie.

Recommend or not?

I recommend this for people who want to watch something different. It is satisfying and it is indeed romantic. Not for those people who hates horror though.

Finally, the last movie that I would be talking about. "My Tutor Friend 2" is a bit older than those two previously mentioned movies. This is not a sequel to My Tutor Friend but it has a similar aspect; the tutor falls for the student or vice versa.

Pros: I like the overall idea of this film but I find the plot very basic to romantic comedies. Boy meets girl and falls in love given a situation. It's a safe movie to watch for romantic comedy lovers. Nevertheless, it still gives a fall-in-love feeling.

Cons: Overused main leads hate each other at first and falls in love afterwards. Bit of slow-paced for me. 

Recommend or not?
This film is probably what you watch when you are very bored and have nothing else to watch and you feel like watching some rom-com. Nonetheless, do not watch if you expect any good.

This ends the Romantic Comedy part of my Korean movie marathon last January. I shall write about my top 5 or top 10 (still can't decide) Rom-Com Korean films next time! Also the Korean thriller/horror films that I've watched last January~